Learn to Reunite from Ex-Alienated Kids
We are a team of former alienated children, now expert coaches in Parental Alienation, dedicated to helping parents reunite with their children after high-conflict separations or divorces involving narcissistic ex-partners.
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Testimonials from Moms and Dads who Reversed Parental Alienation & healed their families:
Dad of two teens and one young son, from no contact to overnights!
BEFORE working with Ginger Gentile one-on-one and the Reversing Alienation Roadmap: This dad was struggling to communicate with his ex. It was like “a WWF match on an endless series of Jerry Springer shows”. His ex stopped responding & the kids refused to visit for 8 months.
AFTER working with Ginger Gentile and the Reversing Alienation Roadmap: This dad now sees his kids regularly, even having overnights! Plus he gets to play Fortnight video games remotely with kids even if they are with their mom. His ex even yielded some of her parenting time so the kids could spend more time with their dad. Mom and Dad are now able to have an amicable conversation and his kids feel happy going to his house.
Ginger taught him how to:
let go of anger
communicate effectively with his ex
attract and persuade his children positively instead of pressuring them
Mom of 15 year old daughter, from alienated to 8 vacations in one year!
BEFORE working with Ginger Gentile one-on-one and the Roadmap: The dad made the daughter hate her mom and then took her away. This mom said her relationship with her daughter was a “1 out of 10”. She didn’t want to use the courts because they make it worse and she didn’t have the money. She had not seen her daughter for over 6 months, and her phone calls went unreturned. She didn’t know where her daughter was.
AFTER working with Ginger Gentile one-on-one and the Roadmap: We worked on what her daughter needed from her as a mom. Changing her communication, not only did she get her daughter to come back for a visit but since then they have gone on 8 vacations together! In her own words, the relationship went from a 1 to a 7. She says “I now feel in control of my emotions and my finances,” Because I helped her improve her relationship with her child so she can focus more on her career.
Ginger taught her how to:
focus on her child's needs in that moment
not to pressure her daughter to see her
take back her parental power as a mother
Dad of two teens
BEFORE working with Ginger Gentile one-on-one and the Roadmap: He was very close to his two sons but never had a court order to visit them, it was only when the mom let him see the kids. After a decade of this he decides to get a court order, only to discover that this triggered full-blown alienation. The mom, in anger, would take them to pick-ups but encourage them to not get out of the car (she would dress them in shorts in the winter).
These pickups were brutal for the dad and the kids. He reached out to me and I taught him how to show up to these exchanges with love and humor. Instead of focusing on the alienator or how his kids were being pressured, he focused on how how showed up.
AFTER working with Ginger Gentile one-on-one and the Roadmap: I worked with this loving dad to improve how he showed up to court too and the courts to recognize the alienation! An order to give him visiting rights was established. But the best part is his kids want to see him and chat with him all the time. He now sees his kids regularly!
Ginger taught him how to:
make the short visitations fun
present himself in court
show up with love for his kids even when there is a lot of tension with their mom
Here's the TRUTH.
You can reunite with your child and even become CLOSER THAN EVER in a short period of time.
But most parents waste a lot of time because:
They don't reach out correctly.
They're afraid of making the same mistakes
They just make things worse by falling for the traps set by their ex, their kids or both.
The solution is SIMPLE.
You just have to copy the same steps that other families took in order to reunite.
I'M GINGER GENTILE.
My journey started as a child of high conflict divorce. My parents pitted me against each other and I went years without talking to my dad–and at the age of 20 moved to Argentina to get away from the fighting! But this issue followed me. I married a man who was alienated from his daughter which showed me the pain parents feel when they can’t see a kid (he reunited after 12 years!).
l turned trauma into action and this led me to direct and produce two documentaries to shed more light on this issue, Erasing Dad (2014–resulted in joint custody legislation being passed in Argentina) and Erasing Family (2019, following kids reuniting after alienation).
I spent years talking & interviewing broken & reunited families. I was able to study & document how many of them were able to reunite & reconnect with their children.
And I thought, why not copy what works?
What if I could teach other parents the skills my mom and daddy didn't’ have? My dad’s response to alienation made it worse! And my mom’s behavior only drove me away from her.
Erasing Family (2020)
Documentary follows young adults in North America as they fight to reunite and heal with their families after parental alienation.
Erasing Dad (2014)
Exposes how fathers in Argentina are erased from their kids by the courts.
I learned all I could from the best experts with proven track records and became a certified coach with iPEC, the leader in transformational coaching.
Bill Eddy, author of the leading books on Parental Alienation and how to deal with “difficult” ex’s, personally trained me at the High Conflict Institute after he endorsed my films.
I received recognition for my work. Erasing Dad led to joint-custody being passed in Argentina. Maria Shriver named me an Architect of Change for reuniting families with my films and I was on major TV shows like Red Table Talk and training other professionals.
But deep down I knew I had to do more.
Through studying thousands of families, the pattern on how to reunite with your kids became very clear to me. By following what works for other families and simplifying this advice, I created a solution to a very serious problem.
My training and my unique experience has allowed me to create the Reversing Alienation Road Map. It’s a 6-step formula based on proven methods that help you reunite with your children and rebuild lasting, harmonious relationships.
The 6-Steps of the Reversing Parental Alienation Road Map
Step 1: Elimate Trauma Response
Learn to identify & address trauma responses that cloud your judgment, drain your energy & prevent you from rebuilding healthy & long lasting relationships.
Step 2: Let Go of the Pain
Learn to let go & allow for emotional healing. Your children benefit when you are emotionally healthy and present. They need a parent who can guide and support them without the overshadowing burden of unresolved pain.
Step 3: Understand the Root Cause
Learn proven methods to find out what is the root cause that’s driving the alienation. Once you have identified the root cause you can then apply effective techniques to break the cycle of alienation.
Step 4: New Communication Skills
Learn to communicate assertively but respectfully with your ex. It can go a long way in stopping the cycle of alienation. Learn to express love and understanding to your children, perhaps through active listening and validation, it is crucial in changing their perception of you.
Step 5: Attract Your Kids Back
Create a beautiful life for yourself. Learn to become a magnet that attracts your kids back towards you and stop repelling them. Learn to create a positive & inviting environment for the children.
Step 6: Strategy & Plan
Learn effective strategies and have a personalized plan that will allow you to stay consistent and motivated to reunite. There is a right way to reach out depending on your kid's age & situation.
Let's Get Your Kids Back!
Meet Our Parental Alienation Coaches
Severe Parental Alienation with Abduction Survivor
Ex-alienated Child, Director & Producer of Erasing Family
Ex-alienated Child and Parental Alienation Coach
Working with me means
You will be inspired to take action and heal your family. You’ll have hope & be able to see a clear path towards reuniting with your kids.
You’ll discover how to deal with your ex, what is really driving the alienation and how to stop it.
You can finally stop feeling like a failed parent. You will feel empowered, confident, a motivated loving parent because you will have all the tools, support and information you need in order to reunite with your kids.
There’s no need to go at this on your own. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel. You simply have to follow the proven steps that other families took in order for them to reunite.
What Our Mommies & Daddies Say
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My story is really unique and extreme. Will this work?
What if my kids or ex-spouse doesn't want to participate?
Can Ginger's Coaching or roadmap help me if I have an active court case?
I'm not a parent. I'm a grandparent or spouse of an erased parent? Can I take it?
Can I take the lessons REVERSING ALIENATION ROADMAP at my own pace?
Why is this NOT for me?
Can Ginger's coaching or roadmap help me if I have an adult child who is alienated and there has been no contact for a decade?
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